Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Our Secret Garden

When we first moved to this town three years ago, we began walking the neighborhood, exploring our new space. I was used to walking a lot, since we lived in Chicago before we moved here. I pushed Luke and Henry in our double jogging stroller, often running for exercise, which allowed us to cover more distance. It was fun to discover the different neighborhoods near us, even magical at times. In our little town, we have a street of amazing, mostly stone homes on huge lots, and when we first stumbled upon them, we called them the “castle houses.” We also have a neighborhood of Frank Lloyd-Wright inspired homes in a wooded, hilly area with a creek running in and out of the lots. We call these “the funny houses.” But it was this creek that excited my boys the most, and we quickly found several places where we could access this creek around our town. This was the creek where we tried to catch minnows one warm fall day nearly three years ago.

When we bought our new house last summer, I knew we were near the creek. But I couldn’t figure out a very good access point near our house, since steep, often cliff-like banks surround it in this area. But one day last summer, Henry and I found a little path on the edge of a parking lot that led us down to the creek. We were thrilled with the new section of the creek that we had discovered, the bottom covered in shale for easy walking and the beautiful, steep banks rising up dramatically on either side. We visited the creek many times last summer, and while we saw deer and raccoons and plenty of minnows, we never saw any other people. With the sun filtering down through the trees at the tops of the banks, it seemed like our own little mystical world.
We walked down the creek many times last summer, and I let the boys swim in a deeper, dammed up area one day. But we never pushed past that place on our walks.

A couple of weeks ago, Luke had a friend over for the day. It was rainy for most of the morning, but when the rain let up, I insisted that we head out for a walk. They asked to go to the creek, but I was afraid that the steep path on our side would be too slippery after the rain, especially since I was carrying Silas in the baby bjorn. I convinced them to walk along the streets to another, tamer access point. There, they began to walk up the creek, discovering “fossils” and other magical objects. Then they got the idea that they would like to walk all the way up the creek to the spot near our house. I had the stroller along with us for Henry, and I had Silas strapped to my front, so I said no. They begged and said they could handle it themselves and I could meet them on the other side, and honestly, I was really tempted to let them, but since I hadn’t walked it myself, I didn’t know what they might encounter. So I said no.

A couple of days ago, Luke and Henry asked to go the creek. I tied Silas on with my wrap, and we headed out the door. Once we went down our steep path, we started walking down the creek. And after they begged, again, to walk the creek to the next access point, I decided that we might as well try. And so we did. And it was magical. I can’t explain why, exactly, it was so amazing to start out one place and wind up another by following the creek. It was like we were somehow transported, like it might feel if we were to travel in underground tunnels. At one point I fell backwards into the creek. I soaked my backside and bruised both elbows, but Silas was fine, if a bit startled. Henry fell into the creek, too. By the time we were walking home along the streets, Luke commented that we looked like a band of homeless people. I’m not sure about that, but we did look sweaty and disheveled, and I did look like I had wet myself.

It was a lovely hour, a timeout from reality. No phones ringing, no toys for distraction. No chores to be done, no fighting over the swing. Just me and my boys, forging throught unknown territory, scrambling over a log jam, slipping on algae-green rocks. Working together to explore an unknown, beautiful place.


so yung wilson said...

Oh joy - two posts in quick succession!

Not to intrude on the magical space, but I'd love to see it next time we visit. I love creeks.

You're story reminded me of my time enjoying "our" creek growing up. We never walked very far up it, but the few times we did, I felt like an explorer. It was fun.

Next winter, if the weather cooperates, you and the boys will have to have a little Epiphany/Theophany celebration there. And then you'll be responsible for that little body of water. It will help occupy your time since you don't have much else going on.

Anonymous said...

I love moments like these. They make lovely memories. Seems like I try to go back there and re-live them and it never is quite the same. I love this post. Wish I was there to let the boys show me their special spot. Maybe we can do some exploring like this when you come to Alaska....even if it has to be in the rain. :) (I hear you can see more fairies in the rain anyway.)
When I was growing up my family would go camping for a week or two every summer. My mom, sister and I would go exploring up creeks for hours. The beauty of it is you never have to worry about getting lost so you don't have to pay attention to which direction you are going. You want to keep going and going, (just around one more bend)...you never know what lovely things will be there. I have some very special memories of those times. Keep up the adventures. It's good therapy too when you feel "on the edge." Love, Mom

Laura said...

It was lovely to read this. It's harder to experience things like this around the city, but I know the feeling. I love to feel like the no-care, no-chore mama who can have adventures with her boys. Restorative.

Heather said...

Can you say what town this is? Is it in TN? I'm stuck in the city, but want to move home to the country so much. Especially after reading this.

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